A lot of kids are bullied because of their sexual identity or expression. It's often the effeminate boys and the masculine girls, the ones who violate gender norms and expectations, who get bullied.
Dan SavageWe all have our scars. That's what falling is love is all about: revealing your scars to somebody who then loves you anyway.
Dan SavageActual gay people can make many others feel uncomfortable and paranoid because they don't know and can't articulate what makes a person gay, and they worry that maybe they themselves are gay.
Dan SavageIs it adultery if Iโm committing it at one end of a guy and heโs committing it at the other end of that same guy?
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