I'm allergic to dogs, so I couldn't even adopt what gay men typically adopt when they have that maternal gene.
Dan SavageIn an open adoption agreement, you agree to a minimum number of visits - a floor, not a ceiling. It's enforceable.
Dan SavageOne man's blasphemy doesn't override other people's free-speech rights, their freedom to publish, freedom of thought.
Dan SavageMy dad was a homicide cop in the gay neighborhood in the city when gay neighborhoods were desperate, depressing, sad places run by the mob. The only gay people he'd met when I came out to him were corpses.
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