We're living through an age of irrationality and religious "fervor" I would call it religious idiocy. It's exhausting to year after year be on the receiving end of this demagoguery.

You know, my problem is I cant say no to people, especially people who want to write me checks to do things.

Really, when it comes to gay rights, there's two wars going on. The first war is political. But the culture war is over.

I waver between a cop-out agnostic and principled atheism

I think the best thing for you to do is just live your life. Live a life that's worth living, one where you do what you want to do, pursue your passions. That way, if you meet someone, they'll be joining a life that's already really good.

Don't mistake being an asshole for being a man.

For me, my discomfort with gay weddings was articulated by a close friend, who observed that gay people getting married is like retarded people getting together to give each other PhDs. It doesn't make them smarter, and it doesn't make us married.