The cultural expectation should be if there's infidelity, the marriage is more important than fidelity.
Dan SavageA lot of people think that telling people you're gay is something someone might say just to get attention.
Dan SavageLike it or not children are being raised by gay and lesbian parents all over America - as many as 10 million children. And it does nothing to make their lives more stable and secure to attack their families, to attack their parents to prevent us from marrying each other.
Dan SavageIs it adultery if Iโm committing it at one end of a guy and heโs committing it at the other end of that same guy?
Dan SavageYou can't have Rosie on The View and Elton John packing Mom and Pop in at Caesars Palace and gay people all over television, and then have these politicians run out there with a straight face and say that gay and lesbian relationships are a threat to the family. We are winning in the culture - which is why we'll ultimately win the political war.
Dan Savage