Psychologists call this habituation, economists call it declining marginal utility, and the rest of us call it marriage.
Daniel GilbertIf I wanted to know what a certain future would feel like to me, I would find someone who is already living that future. If I wonder what it's like to become a lawyer or marry a busy executive or eat at a particular restaurant, my best bet is to find people who have actually done these things and see how happy they are.
Daniel GilbertAlas, we think of ourselves as unique entities-minds unlike any others-and thus we often reject the lessons that the emotional experience of others has to teach us.
Daniel GilbertOur inability to recall how we really felt is why our wealth of experiences turns out to be poverty of riches.
Daniel Gilbert