Discipline works from the inside out, and punishment tries to work from the outside in.

Typically, people allow differences and mistakes to lower their respect and value for other people. But you know the pillar of honor is strong in a relationship when you can look at the other person and say, “You are really different from me. It makes me sad when I see you making that choice. But I love you. I value you, I believe in you, and I am here for you in this relationship.

Discipline works from the inside out, and punishment tries to work from the outside in.

If we don't know how to deal with sin then we don't know how to deal with people.

Each believer comes to understand his or her significance in relationship to the whole Body, and the conviction begins to take hold: “I carry something that no one else carries. I must develop and release my gifts into the Church and the world and do my part in bringing Heaven to earth.” Honor empowers people.

The more others encounter us honoring the boundaries we have set for our lives, the more they will know that they can trust us with their lives.

Jesus defied all of these rules. He taught in the outer courts of the Temple so women could join the audience.