It's my job to manage my heart so that I can respond to you in love and cast out fear in our relationship.

One of the reasons people perish without a vision is that they cannot endure the pain and cost required to achieve any worthwhile purpose.

In being vulnerable, we reach for our greatest need while risking our greatest pain.

This is because fear and love are enemies. They come from two opposing kingdoms. Fear comes from the devil, who would like nothing more than to keep you permanently disconnected and isolated. Love comes from God, who is always working to heal and restore your connection with Him and other people and bring you into healthy, life-giving relationships.

Marriage isn't just a choice. It's choosing the same person a million times.

Yes, it's vulnerable and scary to keep your love on toward someone who has become a perceived threat-you cannot guarantee what he or she is going to do. But you can guarantee your own choice. And you can always choose connection.

Every problem must find it's owner before we can ever offer a solution