The First Goal of Conversation: Understanding, not Agreement
In being vulnerable, we reach for our greatest need while risking our greatest pain.
No one else can steward the fire inside of you because only you are in charge of it.
Every problem must find it's owner before we can ever offer a solution
It's my job to manage my heart so that I can respond to you in love and cast out fear in our relationship.
Powerful people do not try to control other people. They know it doesn't work, and that it's not their job. Their job is to control themselves.