Yes, it's vulnerable and scary to keep your love on toward someone who has become a perceived threat-you cannot guarantee what he or she is going to do. But you can guarantee your own choice. And you can always choose connection.

In being vulnerable, we reach for our greatest need while risking our greatest pain.

Jesus defied all of these rules. He taught in the outer courts of the Temple so women could join the audience.

The difference between punishment and discipline is a powerful child.

Shame is removed through love.

Yes, it's vulnerable and scary to keep your love on toward someone who has become a perceived threat-you cannot guarantee what he or she is going to do. But you can guarantee your own choice. And you can always choose connection.

It's my job to manage my heart so that I can respond to you in love and cast out fear in our relationship.