Anything that does not belong where it is, is an "open loop" pulling on your attention.

It was helpful to be able to call a lawyer...it turns out, that not only did they help me, but they really helped the whole community.

Anything that causes you to overreact or underreact can control you, and often does.

You won't see how to do it until you see yourself doing it.

Most people feel best about their work the week before their vacation, but it's not because of the vacation itself. What do you do the last week before you leave on a big trip? You clean up, close up, clarify, and renegotiate all your agreements with yourself and others. I just suggest that you do this weekly instead of yearly.

My opinion is that anybody offended by breastfeeding is staring too hard

The balance you have between drive and patience may be your master key to success.