Without a gut-level sense that you are ultimately in control of what's happening to you, you won't even consider the option that you could manage it better.
David AllenWhat you'll tend to avoid doing is probably the most important thing you need to do because it'll probably be the most daunting and the most potentially successful thing you could be doing and that's usually out of people's comfort zone.
David AllenThere is no reason ever to have the same thought twice, unless you like having that thought.
David Allen