What i want is for what i want to actually matter.

If you start the day reading the obituaries, you live your day a little differently.

The more kindness and justice are challenged, the more we must embrace them. Only when you are challenged - and only when you challenge yourself - do you discover what truly matters.

That's the problem with having a moral code. We want to destroy the jerkish part of the jerks, but we want to save the human being underneath.

Things that matter are not easy. Feelings of happiness are easy. Happiness is not. Flirting is easy. Love is not. Saying you’re friends is easy. Being friends is not.

Do I really have to find a word for it? Can't it just be what it is?

He never wears a watch (his own rebellion against time, against watching).