For years, I'd say yes to almost everything, trying to be nice and generous. Feeling obliged to be of service to the world. Maybe also a fear of being forgotten if I don't. But I paid the ultimate price in doing that, because for all those years, I got almost no work done! Some famous authors have written about this: that if they said yes to every request, then they'd never have time to write another book again.
Derek SiversRepeated psychology tests have proven that telling someone your goal makes it less likely to happen.
Derek SiversMost people don't know what they're talking about. They move their mouth and say things because they don't want to admit they don't know. Or they think they know, but it's just confabulation and biases. So ignore them unless what they say resonates with some real wisdom inside of you. Assume they're a fool and find out the truth for yourself.
Derek SiversLearning. It's really the primary reason behind everything I do. Programming, entrepreneuring, writing.
Derek SiversProgramming languages are like girlfriends: The new one is better because *you* are better.
Derek Sivers