When starting at the bottom, be willing to learn from those at the top.
In our system leadership is by consent, not command. To lead a President must persuade. Personal contacts and experiences help shape his thinking. They can be critical to his persuasiveness and thus to his leadership.
With the press there is no "off the record.
The implication that there was something wrong with the war plan is amusing.
A president has to provide leadership to gain support.
Don't be a bottleneck. If a matter is not a decision for the President or you, delegate it. Force responsibility down and out. Find problem areas, add structure and delegate. The pressure is to do the reverse. Resist it.