One thing I've learned that is basic but bears repeating constantly: You are created with free will. Not even the Creator can help you unless you ask for help.
Doreen VirtueWhen you say No, you also become a role model of healthy boundaries for others (especially your children).
Doreen VirtueYour angels are ALWAYS with you, every minute of every day.You are never alone. You are always loved and watched-over.
Doreen Virtue