I would use going into nature to clear myself - trees and plants including having plants at your house is a wonderfully natural way to continuously clear yourself.

Become very clear about your intentions and desires, know that you deserve them, and then firmly put your foot down to the universe commanding these changes (while simultaneously surrendering control over how this will occur). All the doors will open for you as a result!

Surround yourself with positive people and situations, and avoid negativity.

Take a moment to gather your thoughts about your situation and ask, "What would Love do?" Then channel that energy in your words and actions.

When you say No, you also become a role model of healthy boundaries for others (especially your children).

Even labeling the tea party and left and right its dangerous, because it's - it's another ego separation tool.

True friends are trustworthy angels.