You can't get mad at weather because weather's not about you. Apply that lesson to most other aspects of life.
Douglas CouplandShe thought about her life and how lost sheโd felt for most of it. She thought about the way that all truths sheโd been taught to consider valuable invariably conflicted with the world as it was actually lived. How could a person be so utterly lost, yet remain living?
Douglas CouplandIf you don't change, then what's the point of anything happening to you? It'll still be happening to an unchanged person.
Douglas CouplandTry not thinking of peeling an orange. Try not imagining the juice running down your fingers, the soft inner part of the peel. The smell. Try and you can't. The brain doesn't process negatives.
Douglas CouplandFailure is authentic, and because it's authentic, it's real and genuine, and because of that, it's a pure state of being.
Douglas CouplandIn Canada, when we speak of water, we're speaking of ourselves. Canadians are known to be unextravagant, and one explanation of this might be that we know that wasted water means a diminished collective soul; polluted waters mean a sickened soul. Water is the basis of our self-identity, and when we dream of canoes and thunderstorms and streams and even snowballs, we're dreaming about our innermost selves.
Douglas Coupland