It seems that most people need to experience a great deal of suffering before they will relinquish resistance and accept - before they will forgive.
Eckhart TolleIf you are in the habit of creating suffering for yourself, then you are probably creating suffering for others too
Eckhart TolleWhen this delusion of utter separateness underlies and governs whatever I think, say, and do, what kind of world do I create?
Eckhart Tolle