Neither failure nor success has the power to change your inner state of Being.
"Going with the flow" is for some people an excuse for not taking action and it refers usually to one's life situation.
You find God the moment you realize that you don't need to seek God
Surrender is the inner transition from resistance to acceptance, from no to yes.
[Visualisation] works most powerfully when you realize that it is already a reality on the unseen level. It's already there.
Being spiritual has nothing to do with what you believe and everything to do with your state of consciousness.