The helpful thought for which you look Is written somewhere in a book.
I tend to be rather inconsequential and trail off.
Interviewer: What is your greatest regret? Gorey: That I don't have one
Explaining something makes it go away, so to speak; what's important is left after you have explained everything else.
I have given up considering happiness as relevant.
What is, is, and what might have been could never have existed.