Anyone whose lifestyle may frighten you or whose point of view makes smoke come out of your ears.

I'm not naive. I know how hard it is to get along.

...approach change with an understanding of the process and an openness to the pain.

We need each other's ideas. Now, I'm not talking about racist ideas or misogynistic ideas or cruel or criminal ideas. I'm talking about most of us who have very varied experiences, needs and ideas. It's really about believing that it's an important part of healing America.

I'm calling my initiative take the other to lunch. If you are a Republican, you can take a Democrat to lunch or if you're a Democrat, think of it as taking a Republican to lunch because there is no shortage of the other right in your own neighborhood, maybe that person who worships at the mosque or the church or the synagogue down the street or someone from the other side of the abortion conflict - or maybe your brother-in-law who doesn't believe in global warming.

No one has the answer; only you know the way home.

There is no one alive who has not wanted to go back to sleep.