Every couple has two stories - the edited one to be shared from the couch and the unabridged version best left alone.

And then there is our personal history. Memories only we share. Things not another living soul would understand.

But I am learning that perfection isn't what matters. In fact, it's the very thing that can destroy you if you let it.

I'm nostalgic and I do think about a "what if."

Happiness is the best revenge, you know? Just be happy. It's a choice.

It's like Brad Pitt for us. You might not like blond men with pretty features, but c'mon, it's Brad. You're not going to kick him out of bed for eating crackers.

Some of my very closest friends are my guy friends, going back to the third grade, so I believe in the integrity of the male-female friendship.