Nothing is less important than which fork you use. Etiquette is the science of living. It embraces everything. It is ethics. It is honor.
Emily PostManners are made up of trivialities of deportment which can be easily learned if one does not happen to know them.
Emily PostGood manners reflect something from inside-an innate sense of consideration for others and respect for self.
Emily PostThe only occasion when the traditions of courtesy permit a hostess to help herself before a woman guest is when she has reason to believe the food is poisoned.
Emily Post