Embrace reality. Think about what delights you - the small luxuries on which you depend, the people whom you cherish most. But remember that they have their own distinct character, which is quite a separate matter from how we happen to regard them.
EpictetusWere I a nightingale, I would act the part of a nightingale; were I a swan, the part of a swan.
EpictetusMen are disturbed not by the things that happen, but by their opinion of the things that happen.
Epictetus