Make it your business to draw out the best in others by being an exemplar yourself.
Remember that you are but an actor, acting whatever part the Master has ordained. It may be short or it may be long. If he wishes you to represent a poor man, do so heartily; if a cripple, or a magistrate, or a private man, in each case act your part with honor.
Think of God oftener than you breathe.
Seek not good from without; seek it within yourselves, or you will never find it.
Preach not to others what they should eat, but eat as becomes you and be silent.
It is not a demonstration of kindness or friendship to the people we care about to join them in indulging in wrongheaded, negative feelings. We do a better service to ourselves and others by remaining detached and avoiding melodramatic reactions.