What disturbs and alarms man are not the things, but his opinions and fancies about the things.
EpictetusTo live a life of virtue, you have to become consistent, even when it isn't convenient, comfortable, or easy.
EpictetusNothing outside the will can hinder or harm the will; it can only harm itself. If then we accept this, and, when things go amiss, are inclined to blame ourselves, remembering that judgment alone can disturb our peace and constancy, I swear to you by all the gods that we have made progress.
Epictetus