Sickness is a hindrance to the body, but not to your ability to choose, unless that is your choice. Lameness is a hindrance to the leg, but not to your ability to choose. Say this to yourself with regard to everything that happens, then you will see such obstacles as hindrances to something else, but not to yourself.
EpictetusIt is better to advise than upbraid, for the one corrects the erring; the other only convicts them.
EpictetusDo not seek to bring things to pass in accordance with your wishes, but wish for them as they are, and you will find them.
Epictetus