Suffering arises from trying to control what is uncontrollable, or from neglecting what is within our power.
EpictetusWe must ever bear in mind --that apart from the will there is nothing good or bad, and that we must not try to anticipate or to direct events, but merely to accept them with intelligence.
EpictetusOn the occasion of every accident that befalls you, remember to turn to yourself and inquire what power you have for turning it to use.
Epictetus