What really frightens and dismays us is not external events themselves, but the way in which we think about them. It is not things that disturb us, but our interpretation of their significance.
EpictetusTo be getting an education means this: to be learning what is your own, and what is not your own.
EpictetusYou may be always victorious if you will never enter into any contest where the issue does not wholly depend upon yourself.
Epictetus