I honestly never understood how violence against women became a women's issue. 95 percent of the violence men are doing to women.

In America, we have a government that is now run by white nationalists, by billionaires, by incredible misogynists.

I think we need to teach pleasure. What beautiful touch means. What reciprocity means. What being connected and what intimacy means. Boys get out there at a young age and the performance posturing is so great and ends up being hard and aggressive.

There is just so much excess in terms of the market for self-remodeling. I think most women are perfectly gorgeous and beautiful the way they are.

Women not only get violated, but then we take on the struggle to end it too... As a man, how could the destruction of women be anything to you but devastating? Think about the fact that the women being hurt are your mothers, daughters, sisters.

We must stop being polite and behaved and find new inventive tactics to shift the paradigm. We are the majority.

The mechanism of violence is what destroys women, controls women, diminishes women and keeps women in their so-called place.