To be afraid of our next life because we don't feel we've done a good job with this life is not wise. It creates unhappiness now.
Frederick LenzLove is something that we don't control. We have to be ourselves. You can be sexual, nonsexual, asexual, bisexual, or trisexual and it really doesn't have a lot to do with enlightenment.
Frederick LenzOne doesn't actually meditate on the navel. The chakra is located about two or three inches below the navel, at that point there is an energy access sphere in the middle of the body.
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