Sex does drain a certain amount of your occult energy. But that really has nothing to do with enlightenment.
Frederick LenzFear is just an idea in the mind that limits you. You cannot become enlightened if you are afraid, nor can you become happy.
Frederick LenzWisdom is the ability to realize that everyone has their own dharma, everyone goes their own way. What works for you is not the ultimate good. Know that other people have different way.
Frederick LenzYou can increase your capacity to absorb the mystical kundalini. I have 3 or 4 students who are on the path of mysticism, they can absorb more of it.
Frederick Lenz