You can live in the world and have friends, family and possessions. But don't take them all too seriously. Death removes everything. Feel death is every moment, as life is every moment.

You need to feel good about your life. Winning is a great idea, but you can get stuck in it too. It's just another way of looking at life, an idea. You need to renew yourself and your spirit.

The emphasis in tantra is not what you find yourself doing, it's on meditation.

It's only illusions that destroy us. It's illusions that convince us that we can't. It's the illusions of the transient that tell us that all this matters.

In Tantric Zen, career, relationships, the type of insurance you have - all things are part of your evolution, your awareness, your experience of the suchness of existence.

The nagual is the superconscious. It's nirvana. It's the unknown that cannot be explained or reasoned.

You can detach your attention from yourself and go anywhere. You can wander the universe. Big deal!