Your basically saying when your ready to marry somebody your wanting to spend your whole life with them with their flaws and all. If your still testing them then it's something there that needs to be worked out. That really falls on the person doing the test. A lot of times it is based on insecurities.

Without a plan your kind of just like a dog chasing it's tail, your not getting anywhere.

Definitely, I'm always nice. Sometimes I wish I could be naughty, I'm just a little too boring.

A lot of times I feel like people stick around in a relationship because they feel a primal need to be with that person for whatever reason.

I don't know if it's still taboo in our culture but counseling is a great thing because sometimes you need someone from the outside to sit down and go over whatever the questions or conflicts are and come to a resolution.

Honesty is a big deal, and when your honest everything will fall into place.

Everybody when you propose and talk about putting your life together, the ultimate goal is the same. I think sometimes people forget your background and however you were raised. You want to have a different route to get to that goal.