The ego searches for shortcomings and weaknesses. Love watches for any sign of strength. It sees how far each one has come and not how far he has to go.

Love is the part of us that is real.

Try finding love, rather than finding fault.

Giving means extending one's love with no conditions, no expectations and no boundaries. . . Peace of minds occurs, therefore, when we put all our attention into giving and have no desire to get anything from, or to change, another person. . . The giving motivation leads to a sense of inner peace and joy that is unrelated to time.

Other people do not have to change for us to experience peace of mind.

Forgiveness means letting go of the past.

Remembering and seeing are not the same, and that is why memories are of little use to us in forming loving relationships.