Not judging is another way of letting go of fear and experiencing Love. When we learn not to judge others - and totally accept them, and not want to change them - we can simultaneously learn to accept ourselves.
Love is the part of us that is real.
To be impatient is to be hooked on the future.
Look at a person's light, not their lampshade.
The best way to navigate through life is to give up all of our controls.
Remembering and seeing are not the same, and that is why memories are of little use to us in forming loving relationships.