One of the things that kills Buddhist spiritual life is excessive seriousness.
People who do not see their choices do not believe they have choices.
Freedom from clinging allows us bring love into all aspects of our life.
Mindfulness, by helping us notice our impulses before we act, gives us the opportunity to decide whether to act and how to act
If you want to attain peace, live peacefully
Once you know your deepest wish you can base your life on intention rather than craving