The wonderful thing about a TV show is if you get picked up for another season, there's no happily ever after.

We live in a world of media that are constantly telling us it is only the shape of your body that matters to how attractive you are, and that's silly.

A nice thing about being 40 is that you're not a kid about your understanding of sex or sexuality anymore.

The person I have sex with doesn't necessarily need to have primacy in my life.

When you're a kid, you think, "Well, I will grow up and I will get a wife and we will have kids and then we will have grandkids." My life has a different shape. That is weird, but there are things about it that are exciting.

Gay people, we die in all the movies, like we almost always die in the movie, because that's what you can do to us that's dramatic. We can't make a baby.

When I did find guys with whom I was very sexually compatible, trying to figure out how romance worked... when you're a gay guy you don't necessarily have that same push to make a conventional relationship work.