A nice thing about being 40 is that you're not a kid about your understanding of sex or sexuality anymore.

At the same time, we can't blame comedians for taking time to learn. Any critic of comedy who believes that he has always, universally, been on the right side of justice is engaging in a hypocrisy that is itself a joke.

The weird thing is when you're a gay guy my age, I spent so much of my life just thinking I was probably never going to date anyone, so now just thinking, "all right, settle down and have a child" seems ridiculous to me.

Self-confidence is a terrible, terrible thing; it's also the most attractive thing.

I am not a huge fan of being around people all the time. I really like being able to leave people.

The person I have sex with doesn't necessarily need to have primacy in my life.

One of the nice things about being me is you show up in a town, you meet somebody interesting and entertaining, and for 48 hours, what a wonderful person to be around. You mess around, and all of that is super, super fun, and you don't have to deal with the long-term consequences of it.