A nice thing about being 40 is that you're not a kid about your understanding of sex or sexuality anymore.

Deeply in my heart, do I want to believe that there is that special guy that is for me. Yes, absolutely.

I really like that homosexuality is a little bit of an existential puzzle.

I think that women have a construction of their sexuality put on them from a very young age that says exclusivity is necessary to remain valuable, that if a dude screws somebody else it means that he doesn't love you, that he doesn't care about you. You don't have primacy in his life.

When you're a kid, you think, "Well, I will grow up and I will get a wife and we will have kids and then we will have grandkids." My life has a different shape. That is weird, but there are things about it that are exciting.

I'm just figuring out being able to understand that it's cool for me to date, and have guys be interested in me, and be interested in guys.

I'm excited for the new crop of gay comics who have never been closeted, who never thought that they needed to put on a dress to tell a joke, and it's exciting.