I want so much to believe in true love.

The weird thing is when you're a gay guy my age, I spent so much of my life just thinking I was probably never going to date anyone, so now just thinking, "all right, settle down and have a child" seems ridiculous to me.

Gay people, we die in all the movies, like we almost always die in the movie, because that's what you can do to us that's dramatic. We can't make a baby.

I really like that homosexuality is a little bit of an existential puzzle.

A nice thing about being 40 is that you're not a kid about your understanding of sex or sexuality anymore.

Deeply in my heart, do I want to believe that there is that special guy that is for me. Yes, absolutely.

While I was doing shitty little bar shows in the Central Valley in 2004, I was being out and helping people realize that gay people aren't monsters, that they are just people. So I look at this world with a great deal of pride, and I'm excited for it.