I think that women have a construction of their sexuality put on them from a very young age that says exclusivity is necessary to remain valuable, that if a dude screws somebody else it means that he doesn't love you, that he doesn't care about you. You don't have primacy in his life.

Self-confidence is a terrible, terrible thing; it's also the most attractive thing.

I really like that homosexuality is a little bit of an existential puzzle.

It is easier to be gay at this very moment than it was five minutes ago. It is just constantly getting better, and it's wonderful.

The person I have sex with doesn't necessarily need to have primacy in my life.

I think that women have a construction of their sexuality put on them from a very young age that says exclusivity is necessary to remain valuable, that if a dude screws somebody else it means that he doesn't love you, that he doesn't care about you. You don't have primacy in his life.

A nice thing about being 40 is that you're not a kid about your understanding of sex or sexuality anymore.