On the other side of resistance is the flow of real life.
Real change isn't found in some new way to think about yourself, but in freedom from the need to think about yourself at all.
All things good come to those for whom the Good is all things.
What is true never fears investigation; what is false... fears everything.
Act on what you love, not from what you fear, and watch how fear fades as love grows.
What you don't want to know about yourself wants to be known, which is why it keeps 'showing up' at your door unannounced!