It is the same with anything - you have to learn through your own experience, paying your own way. You can't learn it from a book.
Haruki MurakamiHolding this soft, small living creature in my lap this way, though, and seeing how it slept with complete trust in me, I felt a warm rush in my chest. I put my hand on the cat's chest and felt his heart beating. The pulse was faint and fast, but his heart, like mine, was ticking off the time allotted to his small body with all the restless earnestness of my own.
Haruki MurakamiA person's last moments are an important thing. You can't choose how you're born but you can choose how you die.
Haruki MurakamiNo matter what they wish for, no matter how far they go, people can never be anything but themselves. That's all.
Haruki Murakami