It is the same with anything - you have to learn through your own experience, paying your own way. You can't learn it from a book.
Haruki MurakamiHuge organizations and me don't get along. They're too inflexible, waste too much time, and have too many stupid people.
Haruki MurakamiSometimes when I'm with you, I remember things I lost when I was your age. Like I remember the sound of the rain and the smell of the wind.
Haruki Murakami