Men tend to be hierarchical, but women are driven to make lateral connections so they can cooperate.
Helen FisherWomen like signs of money and education - things that indicate that not only is this guy going to have some resources, but he's also willing to share them.
Helen FisherThere's all kinds of reasons that you fall in love with one person rather than another: Timing is important. Proximity is important. Mystery is important. You fall in love with somebody who's somewhat mysterious, in part because mystery elevates dopamine in the brain, probably pushes you over that threshold to fall in love.
Helen Fisher