The process of becoming who you will be begins first with the total acceptance of who you are.
Henepola GunaratanaYou can't make radical changes in the pattern of your life until you see yourself exactly as you are now. As soon as you do that changes will flow naturally.
Henepola GunaratanaWe have to learn to be kind to ourselves. In the long run avoiding unpleasantness is a very unkind thing to do to yourself.
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