Leadership is not taken, it is given. People give leadership to those that they trust. They allow people that they trust to have influence over their lives.

Good pain is pain in the service of a purpose. Bad pain is pain endured because we are resisting a needed growth step.

A good test of a relationship is how a person responds to the word 'no.' Love respects 'no,' control does not.

When truth presents itself, the wise person see the light, takes it in, and makes adjustments. The fool tries to adjust the truth so he does not have to adjust to it.

Leadership is not taken, it is given. People give leadership to those that they trust. They allow people that they trust to have influence over their lives.

If your boundary training consists only of words, you are wasting your breath. But if you 'do' boundaries with your kids, they internalize the experiences, remember them, digest them, and make them part of how they see reality.

Things don't change in a marriage until the spouse who is taking responsibility for a problem that is not hers decides to say or do something about it.