The human heart will seek to be known, understood, and connected with above all else. If you do not connect, the ones you care about will find someone who will.

I'm not an expert in the sociological realities of all the pastors in the world, but I would say that there are some very, very positive things about the state of integrity in church leaders.

It is true that you get what you tolerate.

Marriage is not slavery. It is based on a love relationship deeply rooted in freedom. Each partner is free from the other and therefore free to love the other. Where there is control, or perception of control, there is not love. Love only exists where there is freedom.

Dont use all-or-nothing thinking. Take each day as its own day, and dont worry about it if you mess up one day. The most important thing you can do is just get back up on the horse.

Be Hard on the issue, Soft on the person.

Boundaries are basically about providing structure, and structure is essential in building anything that thrives.