Love can only exist where freedom and responsibility are operating.
Values are sometimes worth living and dying for, and are certainly worth dating and breaking up over.
You will not grow without attempting to do things you are unable to do.
Who a person is will ultimately determine if their brains, talents, competencies, energy, effort, deal-making abilities, and opportunities will succeed.
Dating is a give and take. If you only see it as "Taking," you are not getting it.
Because dating is a human exercise, it can be a tightrope fraught with danger. You will be dating imperfect people, and some of them are more imperfect than others. In addition, you are not perfect either, so that complicates the picture.