If you continue to blame other people for “making” you feel guilty, they still have power over you, and you are saying that you will only feel good when they stop doing that. You are giving them control over your life. Stop blaming other people.

People tend to look at dating sort of like a safari - like they're trying to land the trophy.

Dating is not only a wonderful time of life, but also a context for enormous spiritual and personal growth. You learn so much about yourself, others, God, love, spirituality, and life through dating. Done well, it can be fulfilling in and of itself. Done well, it can be one of the most fun and rewarding aspects of your life. Done well, it can lead to a good marriage.

The extent to which two people in a relationship can bring up and resolve issues is a critical marker of the soundness of a relationship.

Dating is a place to practice how to relate to other people.

A leader's responsibility is to cause a vision and mission to have tangible results in the real world.

Being right can never compete with doing well.